The Wound Was Healing And The Surface Pain Lessened, But The Bruise And Its Ache Remained

Quote Of The Day: "...things never turn out the way you think they will. -Michael Chrichtons's Prey

How inherently true, things hardly ever turn out even close to what you were expecting them too. This isnt always a bad thing, much of the time things have the opportunity of going much better then we expect them too and then we are pleasently surprised. But it is the times when we are un-pleasently surprised that sticks with us the longest. Extremities on either side of a thing are things to be avoided. One should never hope for an extreme in any situation, especially in that of romance or life. Sometimes people stop to take stock of their life thus far and they turn back to look at what had been, what is going to be, and what is. In that process we sometimes see that the people around us are not what we remember or what we expect them to be. Ocassionally a person goes through an extraordinary change and everything about them is no longer the same, and for some reason the two of you no longer get along. Other times the person changes slowly (as they should) except for one thign about them and the drastic change of that one thing is enough to damage your personal relationship. Still there are time when a person does not change at all and they are stuck in a cycle of their life and that too destroys or damages your relationship.

On a related note, I must admit to all of you that lately I have not been as open with my blogs as I have been in the past. Mainly this is because they are nto always about me alone and I want to respect the privacy of the others it may involve. Although if you believe yourself tob e a close friend and want to offer advice or just talk then do feel free to talk to me privately. If you are nto always available to speak through the net or do not have continual net access then do feel free to call me when you wish. (541)290-4752 or you may mail me the old way at
Shawn V. Stengar
P.O. Box 649
North Bend Or, 97459
I would love to talk to any of you, especially those few who I have had great philisophical discussions with and those of you whom I have been able to share my views on sex and romatiscism.