Quote Of The Day: "Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance" ~Oscar Wilde
Mr. Wilde is a man full of useful information and truths. But here I am not so sure. After thinking about it a bit I suppose I will consent to this being another one of his profound truths, though it should not be taken for its precise wording but rather the implication fo the proper wording. What I believe he is saying is that men want to believe that even though their love may have been with other men before, he is her only "true" love whereas women can be a bit more flexible in their dillusions about their man. Women instead want to believe that even though her man may have loved others, she is his last love and that in the end is all that matters. Of course neither belief is totally healthy, romantic yes but not healthy. I will take time here to point out that I am speaking ONLY of heterosexual romance and love because that is whom I cater to and, for the moment, who I am. This should not in the least deter a homosexual person from taking truths from this blog but one should realize the audience it is being primairly written for. So, to get back on track, is it healthy to believe you are the world in which your lover lives? The blunt and totally ture answer is "NO!!!". However we are imperfect, flawed, emotional, loving, breathing, thinking human beings and not everything we do is healthy. Is it "ok" to think this way? Absolutely, for love is beautiful, warm, and should fill you from top to bottom with joy when you think of yourself as your lovers light and world in which they love only for you and you for them. Do I support over romantiscizing life and love to the fullest extent of the imagination? Damned right I do, there are complicated reasons why but the short explanation is because I worship Love like many people do God. To those Christians and other believers out there, God is NOT, I repeat NOT, love. There are aspects of love in religion and parts of it in your creation but Love is an entity all its own, it is not your mythical god, do not get my belief confused with your own.
I am taking this part here to stop anyone from reading onward if they are easily offended by their sexual preference or do not want to hear some slight negativity towards homosexualism. In no way do I wish to outwardly offend anyone and I preach nothing but tolerance and harmony towards all beliefs and preferances. Stop here if you cannot handle your preference coming under some attack.
That being said, I am going to talk about my BELIEF about homsexuality. To me, there is no greater slap in the face of almighty nature and Love in its most primal form then homsexuality. Does this mean I believe it to be "wrong"? Not in the least, but I do believe that the love sparked between a male and female relationship and that of a male-male or female-female relationship is anything near the same. Millions of years of nature, isntinct, the formation of galactic and worldly natures have come together to instigate the mating of male and female creatures, nature has gone so far as to make them biologically compatible. Every creature in nature has this instinctual drawing towards one anothers opposite sex up until the development of natures most gloriouss, yet blasphemous, creation, that of Humanity. This creature, much like a young teenager of its own race, chooses to be purposely defiant against its parents of Nature and Love and actually chooses to mate with the same sex in some cases. Defying millions of years of nature, emotional magnetic attraction created by the forces that shaped the cosmos truly empowers the human creature. Humans defy their parents this way to let them know that they can make their own choices. If all humanity did this though we would commit mass genocide of a kind. As we delve deeper into humanit individuals do it for different reasons. Some openly defy their human parents by doing it, some do it to be different, other for social reasons and most importantly some do it because it is the way they feel. The last reason is the only once I consider to be acceptable, feelign without explanation. If you do it because you have had too many bad experiences with women or men then you are nothing more than subject to the whims of the world and your own confusion and need someoen to take care of you because you are NOT self sufficient. But to those who feel for no reason, that is a beauty of its own. This doesnt justify it in the eyes of nature or Love but it is an excellent reason. So, how is the love not the same? The love between male and female is biological, emotional, historical, and natural. All those things serve to strengthen that bond and help to solidify it, whereas homosexual love is purely emotional, not one bit natural, humanitairly historical, or biological. This doesnt lessen the bond, it just makes it different and aloof from its mighty cousin. For my own purposes I will refer to the love between male and female as "true love" and the homsexual love as "Dissentious Love" (it means "defiant", basically). Though the moon shines bright and strong sometimes it has no comparison to the light that is the sun, it doesnt hold the same luminesent strength or warmth and indeed shines only because of the sun behind it but the light of the moon is not to be discounted as soemthing uniquely beautiful and wonderful, such is the nature of dissentious love in comparison to true love. Make no mistake though, dissentious love is a man made creation, born of mans defiance against his creators. But we are allowed our defiance, it is what makes us the unsurpassed masters of the planet, perhaps one day of the stars and it is why god and all his angels fear us and tremble in heaven. Through decisions we are amde more powerful than the gods because we are fickle and can turn upon thema t any moment or praise them for their gift of life to us and all they can do is sit and watch as the rising tide of humanity takes hold of the stars and begin to reach out into the universe seeking their creators for either worship or revenge. Dont believe me? Get your own damned blog and write about it then.
SVS
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